Are You Holding Yourself Back? How to transform SABOTAGE to SUCCESS in 4 steps
Does it ever seem like you are somehow holding yourself back from the success you deeply desire?
It’s as if you feel like you have so much potential but something is keeping you from unleashing it?
And this leaves you feeling shaken, perplexed, and perhaps you eventually begin to lack confidence in yourself and in your abilities?
If this sounds like something you’ve experienced, don’t worry because you are not alone.
In fact, despite our greatest intentions,
Most of us subconsciously sabotage ourselves and hold ourselves back from experiencing success and realizing our Highest Potential.
That is why today I am going to share with you:
Why We Subconsciously Sabotage Our Success
And
A 4 Step Process to Transform Your Sabotage Into Success
Ready???
Of course you are, let’s after it!
Why We Subconsciously Sabotage Our Success
It’s natural that we sabotage ourselves.
In fact, it’s actually a good thing (or at least perceived to be a good thing).
Sabotage is actually a subconscious survival mechanism that is keeping us alive.
You see, our nervous systems are wired in a way that helps us to survive.
When we begin to experience success, expand, and evolve,
Our subconscious perceives this as a threat because
It is a DEATH to who we once thought we were.
So to keep us alive, our subconscious trips us up to perform actions that keep us from becoming a heightened being.
With this in mind, how can we work with our subconscious so that we actually can expand into who we desire to be and experience success along with it?
Well, I will provide you with a:
A 4 Step Process to Transform Your Sabotage Into Success
1. Awareness
Become aware of the moments in your life when you are sabotaging yourself.
With this awareness, you provide yourself the platform to consciously decide to transform into a new being.
2. Welcome
Welcome these subconscious parts of you that are holding you back rather than repressing them.
Remember, these subconscious parts are not trying to harm you.
In fact, they are trying to help you survive.
So gladly welcome them and allow them to feel seen, heard, and known.
3. Receive The Messages
Once you have welcomed these subconscious parts,
Listen to them and allow them to tell you why they are trying to hold you back.
(Note: This can be an extremely weird step at first, but extremely powerful when done authentically)
And once these parts do tell you,
Offer them gratitude because, well, it’s just a nice thing to do!
4. Consciously Execute
Once you have heard these subconscious parts and you have received their messages about why they want to keep you from expanding and experiencing the success you desire,
Let them know who you CHOOSE to be.
Let them know why this will enhance your survival.
And let them know how this will help you thrive.
Do this by feeling the emotions of the being you desire to become.
What does it feel like to have already succeeded?
Then, take deliberate action to initiate the process of transformation
From the same emotional state as if you have already achieved it.
Focus on actions rather than the results because …
When you do this consistently over time,
Performing deliberate actions from the emotional state as already having succeeded:
- Your subconscious will begin to trust you
- The results will begin to follow
- You will experience the success you desire and transform into an expanded stage of being
To Recap
Despite our greatest intentions, we often sabotage our success as a subconscious survival mechanism to keep us from dying to who we once were.
However, there is a 4 Step Process to Transform Sabotage to Success:
- Become AWARE of the moments in your life where you feel like you are sabotaging your success
- WELCOME the parts of you that are holding you back
- RECEIVE THE MESSAGES from these parts and offer them gratitude for looking out for your survival
- CONSCIOUSLY EXECUTE on deliberate actions in the same emotional state as if you have already succeeded
And when you do this process consistently, over and over again:
- Your subconscious will begin to trust in you
- The results will begin to come
- You will begin to experience the success you desire and transform into an expanded stage of being
I wish you well on your journey of transforming sabotage into success, and I look forward to seeing you next week.
Inspiring YOU every step of your way,
Kyle
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