Sunday, March 31, 2024

The Process of Resurrection: How to transcend your pain and evolve into a heightened stage of Being

 


The Process of Resurrection: How to transcend your pain and evolve into a heightened stage of Being

Do you ever feel like you just want to start over in life?

It’s as if you are going through a painful period, where you feel like you are dying:

  • Physically
  • Mentally
  • Emotionally

And you so desperately want to overcome your pain and be reborn into a higher version of you.

Happy Easter!

Another name for Easter is Resurrection Day.

And the term “Resurrection” can be translated into:

A revival of life …

A RESURGENCE into a heightened stage of being.

Today, we are going to talk about

The Resurrection Process

And

How you can transcend your pain and evolve into a heightened stage of being.

There are 3 phases of the Resurrection Process:

1. The Dying Phase

This is when Christ died on the cross.

This is when a caterpillar goes into its chrysalis, never to be a caterpillar again.

This dying phase is marked by:

A sense of feeling hopeless and powerless compared to your circumstances.

The way to transcend this phase is through …

SURRENDER

Surrender to the situations you are experiencing in your life, and allow them to transform you into a heightened stage of Being.

I recall a time in my life when I felt hopeless and powerless to my circumstances in life:

  • My dream was being washed away
  • My physical health was being washed away
  • Opportunities I thought were coming into fruition were being washed away

Eventually, I was left with no choice but to surrender.

And when I did, I entered into the second phase of the Resurrection Process.

2. The Transformation Phase

This is when Christ was in the tomb for three days.

This is when the caterpillar is liquefying into a goopy mess in the chrysalis.

This transformation phase is marked by:

A sense of dissolving.

The way to transcend this phase is through …

Resilience

Those who are resilient through their painful situations, are the ones who are able to allow the transformation to complete its work and refine you into a heightened stage of Being.

After I finally surrendered to my situations, I went out to the middle of a field one night and prayed underneath the stars:

“Life, you’ve taken away my dream, my health, and my opportunities.

What do you have next for me???”

Once I said this, I had a surreal experience where it felt like every part of my being was dissolving and melting away:

  • My skin
  • My bones
  • My muscles

Until there was nothing left but …

A bundle of fire.

A ball of energy.

Deep inside me.

And after I felt this dissolving and the emergence of this energy, I entered the final phase of the Resurrection Process.

3. The Resurrection Phase

This is when Christ came out of the tomb.

This is when the caterpillar emerges out of the chrysalis as a beautiful butterfly.

This resurrection phase is marked by:

A sense of freedom and liberation.

And you feel compelled to …

Share your experience to uplift the world.

After I connected with that ball of fire within me,

I REALIZED I WAS UNSTOPPABLE!!!

Nothing could take that energy away from me,

And that fire would inspire the world around me.

To Recap

There are 3 Phases of the Resurrection Process:

  • Dying
    • Where you feel hopeless and powerless to your circumstances
    • You transcend this phase through surrendering to what Life wants to bring about through you
  • Transformation
    • Where you feel like you are dissolving
    • You transcend this phase through remaining resilient as Life is refining you
  • Resurrection
    • Where you feel freedom and liberation
    • You have the revival of life and the resurgence into a heightened stage of being
    • And you have a compelling conviction to share your new awareness to uplift those around you

I wish you well on your journey of resurrection and transcending your pain to evolve into a heightened stage of being, and I look forward to seeing you next week.

Inspiring YOU every step of your way,

Kyle

Sunday, March 24, 2024

Are You Holding Yourself Back? How to transform SABOTAGE to SUCCESS in 4 steps



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Are You Holding Yourself Back? How to transform SABOTAGE to SUCCESS in 4 steps

Does it ever seem like you are somehow holding yourself back from the success you deeply desire?

It’s as if you feel like you have so much potential but something is keeping you from unleashing it?

And this leaves you feeling shaken, perplexed, and perhaps you eventually begin to lack confidence in yourself and in your abilities?

If this sounds like something you’ve experienced, don’t worry because you are not alone.

In fact, despite our greatest intentions,

Most of us subconsciously sabotage ourselves and hold ourselves back from experiencing success and realizing our Highest Potential.

That is why today I am going to share with you:

Why We Subconsciously Sabotage Our Success

And

A 4 Step Process to Transform Your Sabotage Into Success

Ready???

Of course you are, let’s after it!

Why We Subconsciously Sabotage Our Success

It’s natural that we sabotage ourselves.

In fact, it’s actually a good thing (or at least perceived to be a good thing).

Sabotage is actually a subconscious survival mechanism that is keeping us alive.

You see, our nervous systems are wired in a way that helps us to survive.

When we begin to experience success, expand, and evolve,

Our subconscious perceives this as a threat because

It is a DEATH to who we once thought we were.

So to keep us alive, our subconscious trips us up to perform actions that keep us from becoming a heightened being.

With this in mind, how can we work with our subconscious so that we actually can expand into who we desire to be and experience success along with it?

Well, I will provide you with a:

A 4 Step Process to Transform Your Sabotage Into Success

1. Awareness

Become aware of the moments in your life when you are sabotaging yourself.

With this awareness, you provide yourself the platform to consciously decide to transform into a new being.

2. Welcome

Welcome these subconscious parts of you that are holding you back rather than repressing them.

Remember, these subconscious parts are not trying to harm you.

In fact, they are trying to help you survive.

So gladly welcome them and allow them to feel seen, heard, and known.

3. Receive The Messages

Once you have welcomed these subconscious parts,

Listen to them and allow them to tell you why they are trying to hold you back.

(Note: This can be an extremely weird step at first, but extremely powerful when done authentically)

And once these parts do tell you,

Offer them gratitude because, well, it’s just a nice thing to do!

4. Consciously Execute

Once you have heard these subconscious parts and you have received their messages about why they want to keep you from expanding and experiencing the success you desire,

Let them know who you CHOOSE to be.

Let them know why this will enhance your survival.

And let them know how this will help you thrive.

Do this by feeling the emotions of the being you desire to become.

What does it feel like to have already succeeded?

Then, take deliberate action to initiate the process of transformation

From the same emotional state as if you have already achieved it.

Focus on actions rather than the results because …

When you do this consistently over time,

Performing deliberate actions from the emotional state as already having succeeded:

  • Your subconscious will begin to trust you
  • The results will begin to follow
  • You will experience the success you desire and transform into an expanded stage of being

To Recap

Despite our greatest intentions, we often sabotage our success as a subconscious survival mechanism to keep us from dying to who we once were.

However, there is a 4 Step Process to Transform Sabotage to Success:

  • Become AWARE of the moments in your life where you feel like you are sabotaging your success
  • WELCOME the parts of you that are holding you back
  • RECEIVE THE MESSAGES from these parts and offer them gratitude for looking out for your survival
  • CONSCIOUSLY EXECUTE on deliberate actions in the same emotional state as if you have already succeeded

And when you do this process consistently, over and over again:

  • Your subconscious will begin to trust in you
  • The results will begin to come
  • You will begin to experience the success you desire and transform into an expanded stage of being

I wish you well on your journey of transforming sabotage into success, and I look forward to seeing you next week.


Inspiring YOU every step of your way,

Kyle

Sunday, March 17, 2024

Get Luck to Flow Your Way: 3 Stages of Luck and How to Ascend from Each

 




Get Luck to Flow Your Way: 3 Stages of Luck and How to Ascend from Each

Are you feeling lucky?

Yes??? Great!!! May more come your way.

Wait … What?!? You don’t believe in luck???

Regardless of how you view luck,

Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

And on this day, the topic of luck gets thrown around, which is why today we will talk about:

3 Stages of Luck and How to Ascend from Each

Let’s get into it so you can get luck flowing your way!

1. Beginner’s Luck

This is the stage of luck most people think about.

It’s when the complete newbie takes his first shot blindfolded and “magically” hits the target.

It’s when the little boy goes fishing and on his first cast he catches a monster fish.

The problem with this is …

It’s unstable.

You leave your success up to chance.

The way to ascend from this stage is by …

Getting Good!

Set up variables within your day and schedule so that you can practice, expand, and become proficient in what you want to get good at.

Then we ascend to the second stage.

2. Controlled Luck

This is the stage of luck most of the personal development and self-help industry falls under.

It’s when you hear people talk about,

“There is no such thing as luck. Luck is earned!”

It’s when people have put in the work, blood, sweat, and tears to be the best they can be.

The problem with this is …

People can fall prey to becoming rigid with too much structure so they lose adaptability when things don’t go as planned.

Additionally, this can be a subconscious cover up for deeper insecurities that they don’t believe they actually are good at what they want to be good at.

The way to ascend from this stage is by …

Surrender and Faith!

Let go of rigid plans as to how you are going to control and micro-manage your success.

Then we ascend to the third stage.

3. Divine Luck

When you fully surrender in faith, you realize:

Life is orchestrating all events to guide you to your Highest Potential.

Whether you view a situation as good or bad.

Whether you believe you succeeded or failed.

Life is orchestrating all events to guide you to your Highest Potential.

With this realization, you can take inspired action in the direction you want to go …

While also observing where Life is guiding you.

And this oscillation between action and surrender enables you to:

  • Perform miraculous accomplishments
  • Have peace in the midst of tumultuous chaos
  • Eventually lead you to your life purpose

To Recap

There are 3 Stages of Luck:

  • Beginner’s Luck
    • Which is unstable
    • You ascend through getting good by practicing and intentionally setting up variables within your day
  • Controlled Luck
    • Which can make you improve
    • Eventually it can lead to too much rigidity, lack of adaptability, and serve as a subconscious cover up for deeper insecurities
    • You ascend through surrendering in faith
  • Divine Luck
    • Which is when you realize Life is guiding you to your Highest Potential
    • You oscillate between inspired action and surrendered observation
    • You perform miraculous accomplishments, have indescribable peace, and are led to your purpose

I wish you well on your journey of ascending through all the stages of luck, and I look forward to seeing you next week.


Inspiring YOU every step of your way,

Kyle

Sunday, March 10, 2024

Feeling Weary??? How to remain RESILIENT on your Journey amidst challenges

 



Feeling Weary??? How to remain RESILIENT on your Journey amidst challenges

Do you feel like Life keeps throwing challenges at you???

And do you feel weary from your Journey?

Life is an adventure.

Full of:

  • Twists and turns
  • Ebbs and flows
  • Highs and lows

And often, the people who remain resilient amidst Life’s changing seasons are those who …

Experience a glorious transformation beyond their wildest understanding.

Which is why today I am going to provide you a story to

Help YOU Remain Resilient on Your Journey Amidst Life’s Challenges

And YOU can be one of those individuals that …

Experience the glorious transformation beyond your wildest understanding.

Allow these words to echo and reverberate throughout your entire being.

Imagine you are at the base of a mountain.

You look up at its peak, but the top is so high up that you can’t see it.

In fact, it lies above the clouds, and so the peak is concealed by a layer of clouds.

For some odd reason, you feel a burning desire to walk up the mountain and reach its peak.

You see a path in front of you that leads up the mountain and …

You decide to take it.

You know not where it will lead,

But that burning desire moves you.

And so you start off on your journey, full of ambition and energy.

The journey seems easy:

  • The path is wide and clear, many people have walked it before you
  • You are fueled by a lot of energy which drives you
  • That dream is burning within you

Then, some time goes by …

And the road is not as easy:

  • The path isn’t as wide or clear, most people haven’t ventured this far and have turned back
  • You are tired and your legs begin to burn
  • The initial hit of the dream is fading

But still, that little voice inside you tells you to press on.

So you continue to put one foot in front of the other

And trek up the mountain.

More time goes by …

And now, the road appears impossible to navigate:

  • There is no path, no one has walked this far before
  • Your legs are on fire and you feel you have no energy left
  • You can’t see because you have reached the layer of the clouds
  • You are cold, wet, and you begin to wonder … IS MY DREAM TO SCALE THE MOUNTAIN EVEN WORTH IT???

But still, that little voice inside you tells you to press on.

You put one foot in front of the other because that’s all you can see.

And finally …

You break through the layer of the clouds …

And the summit is in sight!

Now, with a resurgence of energy and passion

You go on an ALL OUT SPRINT to the top.

And once you reach the top,

You experience the most glorious sight you have ever seen:

  • You see the whole world
  • You see every hill and valley
  • You see every river, lake, and stream

And as you reflect on this beautiful sight,

You realize the true beauty is not necessarily in this view,

Rather, the real beauty was in the journey to scale the mountain.

Now, you are filled with a conviction to return and share your experience and journey with the world.

The same is true on our respective Journeys in Life

We have a burning desire to achieve a dream.

We may not be able to see the dream, but we know it’s there and a voice inside us tells us to pursue it.

At first, the road feels somewhat easy:

  • The desire for the dream is strong
  • We are filled with energy, conviction, and passion
  • The Path feels wide because many people have taken similar steps before

Then, the road gets more difficult:

  • The desire for the dream begins to weaken
  • We begin to grow weary from the constant trek
  • The Path seems to narrow because few people have pressed on to this point

Eventually, the road seems impossible:

  • You begin to question if your dream is worth it
  • You feel like you have no energy to keep pursuing your dream
  • You are surrounded by confusion and there is no Path because no one else has walked where you are to walk

Until finally, you break through the clouds and fulfill your dream.

And the view from this newly transformed Being …

Is unlike anything you’ve ever experienced before.

And you realize the true beauty is not merely in being this newly transformed version of yourself.

Rather, the real beauty lies in the Journey, the process, of transforming into this heightened stage of Being.

With this realization, you feel compelled to share your message with the world.

I wish you well on your journey to remaining resilient amidst the uphill climb of Life’s challenges, and I look forward to seeing you next week.


Inspiring YOU every step of your way,

Kyle

Sunday, March 3, 2024

Want to Win??? 3 Characteristics that separate CHAMPIONSHIP TEAMS from mediocre teams

 



Want to Win??? 3 Characteristics that separate CHAMPIONSHIP TEAMS from mediocre teams

Are you part of a team???

What team are you part of???

Are you:

  • On a sports team
  • Part of an organization
  • Involved in your school or work
  • Living in a family or community

What team are you part of???

And do you not merely want to be part of a team,

But do you want to be part of an unstoppable dynasty that wins all the time?

I have had the privilege of being on many teams throughout my life:

  • As an athlete
  • As a coach
  • Traveling across the country with various organizations

And through these experiences, I have identified …

3 Characteristics that Separate Championship Teams from Mediocre Teams

Ready???

Let’s dive in!!!

A few weeks ago, we got to watch the Super Bowl,

America’s most glorious holiday where the entire country gets to watch a clash between the top two teams in the NFL.

This year, the Kansas City Chiefs prevailed triumphant over the San Francisco 49ers.

What makes the Kansas City Chiefs so good???

What has made them the dynasty they are today, winning three out of the last five Super Bowls?

Well, the Chiefs possess these three characteristics, that all championship teams have:

Championship Teams Have a Clear Vision

In the book of Proverbs, there is a line that says:

“Without a vision, the people perish.”

And without a clear vision, your team will perish.

The Kansas City Chiefs had a clear vision:

  • Before every season, their vision is to win the Super Bowl
  • Before every game, their vision is to score more points and win
  • Before every down, their vision is to run a certain run play, pass play, or defensive scheme

What is the clear vision for your team?

  • For your school/work
  • For your community
  • For your family

On Championship Teams, Every Member Thrives in Their Personal Responsibilities

YOU have been blessed with a set of strengths nobody else possesses.

And when you can use them in a way that contributes to the overall upliftment of the team, you exponentially magnify the teams potential.

The players on the Chiefs had their personal positions where they could utilize their strengths to the overall success of the team:

  • Patrick Mahomes would pass the ball … he didn’t need to block or tackle
  • Travis Kelce would block and catch passes
  • Kickers and punters boot the ball
  • Every member had their position

What are your strengths???

And how are you using them to propel your team?

Championship Teams are Unified By a Greater Cause

The Kansas City Chiefs played not merely for themselves, but …

They played for a Greater Cause.

  • They played for each other
  • They played for their fans and family
  • They played for the entire city of Kansas City
  • Perhaps, they even played for a cause beyond that

What Greater Cause is your team unified by?

  • What is the Greater Cause of your family?
  • What is the Greater Cause of your school/work?
  • What is the Greater Cause of your community/organization?

3 Characteristics that Separate Championship Teams from Mediocre Teams:

  • Championship teams have a clear vision
  • Every member thrives in their personal responsibilities
  • Championship teams are unified by a Greater Cause

I wish you well on your journey to being part of a championship team, and I look forward to seeing you next week.


Inspiring YOU every step of your way,

Kyle

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